Sep 12

HOW TO COOK THE CORRECT AMOUNT OF PASTA:

sarcastic-sanity:

1. Pour out how much you think you need.

2. Wrong.

Sep 12
ninjaotta:

just-your-average-superman:

cherry-babe:

mystuffstuff:

sarcasticallyfabulous:

johnnysjetpack:

miso-soup-gyny:

anti-feminism-pro-equality:

What if this had been reverse? What if the girl dumped him and then he smashed all of her CDS or her cellphone and laptop? How would society react? By calling him abusive and controlling.
See, female on male abuse is seen as funny or comical. you see those commercials with the wife throwing the boyfriends stuff out the window. IF the genders were reversed, everyone would see it and call it out for what it really is…abuse.
Abuse is not funny in any way shape or form.
This is why we don’t need feminism.

This mother fucker also owes him a fuckton of money.

thats more than 600$ worth of games!
that’s a fucking felony, theft and destruction of property. call the law on the psycho bitch!

"This is why we don’t need feminism."
Actually, it’s why we DO need feminism. Because feminism isn’t about making women superior and putting men on the bottom. Feminism IS about making everyone equal. The “comedy” behind male abuse is a result of the patriarchy, which is exactly what feminism is trying to destroy. The patriarchy mocks weakness in men, so when men get abused, it’s not taken seriously. It’s a joke, it’s funny, it’s no big deal. “You’re a man, suck it up.”
That’s not what feminists want. If you think that’s what we want, then you you’re not talking to the right feminists. It’s about equality, NOT just reversing the roles, understand?
It’s not okay to abuse women, it’s not okay to abuse men, it’s not okay to abuse ANYONE. That’s the fucking point. The point isn’t “whaa it’s time for women to get to be mean you need to lean your place”. The point is gender inequality is stupid and unhelpful to everyone.
So if you don’t like the way men are treated, don’t hate on feminists. Join them. We don’t like it either.

Thank you.

THANK YOU.

I wish the feminists on this site would all think this way.

all the feminists on this site do think this way. the people who don’t think this way are not feminists

The fact that you can look at a box of smashed videogames and say that it’s comparable to the domestic violence that wimmin face, is totally fucking fucked up. Also, can we stop adapting feminism to so that patriarchical douchebags give a fuck?

ninjaotta:

just-your-average-superman:

cherry-babe:

mystuffstuff:

sarcasticallyfabulous:

johnnysjetpack:

miso-soup-gyny:

anti-feminism-pro-equality:

What if this had been reverse? What if the girl dumped him and then he smashed all of her CDS or her cellphone and laptop? How would society react? By calling him abusive and controlling.

See, female on male abuse is seen as funny or comical. you see those commercials with the wife throwing the boyfriends stuff out the window. IF the genders were reversed, everyone would see it and call it out for what it really is…abuse.

Abuse is not funny in any way shape or form.

This is why we don’t need feminism.

This mother fucker also owes him a fuckton of money.

thats more than 600$ worth of games!

that’s a fucking felony, theft and destruction of property. call the law on the psycho bitch!

"This is why we don’t need feminism."

Actually, it’s why we DO need feminism. Because feminism isn’t about making women superior and putting men on the bottom. Feminism IS about making everyone equal. The “comedy” behind male abuse is a result of the patriarchy, which is exactly what feminism is trying to destroy. The patriarchy mocks weakness in men, so when men get abused, it’s not taken seriously. It’s a joke, it’s funny, it’s no big deal. “You’re a man, suck it up.”

That’s not what feminists want. If you think that’s what we want, then you you’re not talking to the right feminists. It’s about equality, NOT just reversing the roles, understand?

It’s not okay to abuse women, it’s not okay to abuse men, it’s not okay to abuse ANYONE. That’s the fucking point. The point isn’t “whaa it’s time for women to get to be mean you need to lean your place”. The point is gender inequality is stupid and unhelpful to everyone.

So if you don’t like the way men are treated, don’t hate on feminists. Join them. We don’t like it either.

Thank you.

THANK YOU.

I wish the feminists on this site would all think this way.

all the feminists on this site do think this way. the people who don’t think this way are not feminists

The fact that you can look at a box of smashed videogames and say that it’s comparable to the domestic violence that wimmin face, is totally fucking fucked up. Also, can we stop adapting feminism to so that patriarchical douchebags give a fuck?

Sep 05
claudialala:

PHILOSOPHER’S STONE TAROT SPREAD 1. THE TRAPDOOR: The current problem the querent is facing. 2. THE DEVIL’S SNARE: Outcome if the querent doesn’t resolve current problem. 3. THE FLYING KEYS: Something helpful to the querent regarding the problem that the querent has overlooked. 4. THE CHESS BOARD: Best course of action to take to resolve the problem. 5. THE POTION PUZZLE: Cautions the querent must take while resolving the problem. 6. THE MIRROR OF ERISED: The outcome as dictated by following advice given from the fourth card.

claudialala:

PHILOSOPHER’S STONE TAROT SPREAD

1. THE TRAPDOOR: The current problem the querent is facing.

2. THE DEVIL’S SNARE: Outcome if the querent doesn’t resolve current problem.

3. THE FLYING KEYS: Something helpful to the querent regarding the problem that the querent has overlooked.

4. THE CHESS BOARD: Best course of action to take to resolve the problem.

5. THE POTION PUZZLE: Cautions the querent must take while resolving the problem.

6. THE MIRROR OF ERISED: The outcome as dictated by following advice given from the fourth card.

Sep 04

spookyqueen:

spookyqueen:

I said I was going to wait until a milestone to do this give away, but I just can’t wait! Everything listed has only ever been tried on, never worn. I might throw in a few more things by the time the drawing comes around so it will just be an extra surprise for you. 

Here’s what you get:

  • Lisa Frank sticker book
  • Hello Kitty Flat Wallet
  • Nightmare Before Christmas keychain 
  • Butterfly Necklace
  • Turquoise Pendant Necklace
  • Revlon Nail Art Appliques
  • A Sinful Color nail polish in Faceted
  • 3 Batman Magic Towels
  • Almay liquid eyeliner pen
  • Shea Moisture Coconut and Hibiscus Frizz Free Curl Mousse
  • Black And White Maxi Skirt From Cato’s- Size 26-28
  • Swimsuitsforall Floral Suit with side ruffles and convertible straps- Size 22
  • Denim and Floral print sleeveless button up top - Size 18-20 (fits larger as well)
  • Pink Dress From Old Navy- Size- XXL
  • High-Low dress- Size 3X

Here are the rules:

  • You must be following me.
  • Reblogs and Likes count.
  • You may reblog it as much as you’d like.
  • Giveaway blogs are not eligible.
  • I’ll ship outside of the US, but you may have to wait until I have enough money for shipping.

I’m going to pick a winner randomly on my birthday (September 10!). If you have any questions about anything, my ask box is always open. Reblog and good luck, beautiful people!!!

Hey this ends soon!!!!!

Sep 01

justplainsomething:

deadcatwithaflamethrower:

P!nk talking about Stupid Girls [2/2]

Don’t play dumb, even if they want you to.

Props to her for pointing out problematic behavior without putting down the women in general.

Props? bullshit. her video for that song was an utter failure. “Stupid girls”? No that doesn’t play into any cultural understandings about wimmin and intelligence. I get what she’s saying here and it’s a great message now that it’s been explained, but people did not understand that when the video came out. The video with this explaination are alright, but definitely not deserveing of props.

Sep 01

Self-Love Spray

witchcraftings:

Purpose: If you’re ever feeling down about yourself, mist yourself with this Self-Love Spray.

Materials: A spray bottle (alternatively, you can use a regular bottle and simply dab the mixture on yourself); 12 fresh rose petals; lavender essential oil; a lemon; a pot/cauldron; a stove, fire, or kettle; 4 cups water.

This spell is best done…: During a waning moon.

Instructions:

Cast circle and call quarters if desired. Ground and centre if needed.

Concentrate on driving away negative feelings. Visualize what pain, anxiety, and self-hate look like. What colours are they? What do they feel like? For me, negative feelings are dark brown and feel gritty like wet sand or dirt. Next, visualize what good feelings look and feel like. Imagine these good feelings replacing the bad. Say:

"I bless this work with self-love."

Pour 4 cups water into the pot. If you don’t have a stove or fire, boil the water in a kettle before you add it. To the water, add 12 drops lavender essential oil. As you add the oil, say:

"I banish anxiety. I bring peace."

Add 12 rose petals, saying:

"I banish pain. I bring love."

Add the juice of a fresh lemon, saying:

"I banish negativity. I bring happiness."

Pour all the good energy you can into the mixture. I like holding my hands over the pot and picturing myself literally pouring bright light into the pot as if it’s water running from my fingers. Say:

"Darkness is banished and light comes to me. So mote it be." *

Bring the water to a boil and let sit, uncovered, for about 20 minutes (or, it kettle was used, let sit for 20 minutes). Strain the mixture into a bottle and discard the petals and any other leftover materials in the water (i.e. lemon seeds).

Carry the bottle with you, spraying yourself whenever you feel the need to. I like halving the mixture; keep a bottle put away, and carry a tiny mister with you.

*You can replace “So mote it be” with any statement you wish.

Spell written by: Deborah Lipp
Spell from: Llewellyn’s 2014 Witches’ Spell-A-Day Almanac
Do not remove credit

Sep 01

ask-an-mra-anything:

myppgivesmeprivilege:

ask-an-mra-anything:

"not all men"
ఠ ͟ಠ

"men and women are different because in prehistoric times…"
(≖͞_≖̥)

"if i could just play devil’s advocate for a minute…"
( ˇ෴ˇ )

"here, you should read the fountainhead, it explains everything i’m trying to say…"
(¬_¬ )

"feminists don’t want equality they just want women to be in charge of everything…"
( ಠ ∩ಠ)

The second claim actually has scientific consensus. That we are a sexually dimorphic species and have inherent differences due to the origins of our species. 

"The second claim actually has scientific consensus. That we are a sexually dimorphic species and have inherent differences due to the origins of our species. "
(ಠ ಠ)

Sep 01
sassystriderrider:

s3asick-s0uls:

darksigyn:

mattg124:

angrynerdyblogger:

straight-up-juggahos:

kendralynora:

buginateacup:

jaydenw:

whitepajamas:

automatonic-absinthe:

isaia:

rosswoodpark:

time-for-maps:

this changes everything oh my god

do you understand why it trips me out that people can drive 45 minutes and be in aNOTHER COUNTRY?I drive for 45 minutes and im like
a city over 

I live in “Italy” and took a day trip to go to “Austria” and “Germany”

 #it is literally impossible to leave texas #you will be in texas #FOREVER

Chums, that’s sweet, and all, but Australia just ate Texas for breakfast. 


If you drive for 45 minutes in Australia you aren’t a city over, you’re just 45 minutes away from the city.

If you drive for 45 minutes in Australia you may not even leave the cattle station.


If you drive for 45 minutes in Canada you may not even leave your driveway.

If I drive 45 minutes in the us I’m just at another mcdonalds

If I drive for 45 minutes in Northern Ireland I’m 10 minutes into the sea.

I can’t drive. 

I will use this post to explain tumblr

Texas ugh

ugh texas

sassystriderrider:

s3asick-s0uls:

darksigyn:

mattg124:

angrynerdyblogger:

straight-up-juggahos:

kendralynora:

buginateacup:

jaydenw:

whitepajamas:

automatonic-absinthe:

isaia:

rosswoodpark:

time-for-maps:

this changes everything oh my god

do you understand why it trips me out that people can drive 45 minutes and be in aNOTHER COUNTRY?

I drive for 45 minutes and im like

a city over 

I live in “Italy” and took a day trip to go to “Austria” and “Germany”

 #it is literally impossible to leave texas #you will be in texas #FOREVER

Chums, that’s sweet, and all, but Australia just ate Texas for breakfast. 

image

If you drive for 45 minutes in Australia you aren’t a city over, you’re just 45 minutes away from the city.

If you drive for 45 minutes in Australia you may not even leave the cattle station.

image

If you drive for 45 minutes in Canada you may not even leave your driveway.

If I drive 45 minutes in the us I’m just at another mcdonalds

If I drive for 45 minutes in Northern Ireland I’m 10 minutes into the sea.

I can’t drive. 

I will use this post to explain tumblr

Texas ugh

ugh texas

Aug 25

I don't care how many "likes" your photo has →

im-dont-went:

bigfatlies:

I’ll take my healthy sized (normal BMI of 22) body over your obese nasty body any day. Yes I said it, obesity is NASTY. Not only does it feel nasty (I’ve been there so I know), but it looks nasty. Who the fuck cares how many likes you have on your photo, especially when you are…

Woah there. You’re being just as much a bully as people who fat shame. “You disgusting thin trash” seriously? That’s beyond rude and gets you no where. Instead of having people focus on fat shamming you just piss people off and have them focus on you being rude and a bully. You’d think if fat shaming bothered you so much you wouldn’t wish that same feeling on someone who’s thin. I know this won’t change your mind any as you’re evidently all ready too far gone in your hate so I’ll stop my rant here but know you’re being just as hurtful and just as much a bully as someone who fat shames. I hope you come to realize how rude and unnecessary that was. No one deserves to be talked to that way. No one.

Why don’t you cry about it?

Aug 23

Anonymous said: yeah thats great let people get triggered cause you cant take one second to tag something that isnt supposed to be on this blog anyway. fuck you.

ewkcupid:

katatttack:

ewkcupid:

katatttack:

ewkcupid:

The internet is so filled with stuff that can potentially trigger people. It is not my responsibility to cradle and coddle every single internet stranger on MY blog. Anything on my blog is supposed to be there because it’s MY blog. Again. Don’t tell me what I should and should not do on MY blog as if it were law. Don’t like it? Fuck off and unfollow me. 

lol I literally just followed you and this is the first notable thing that I see. That’s total bullshit. Sure you don’t have to tag for triggers, that just makes you a fucking asshole. Great job, douche bag.

No seriously. I don’t have to tag and that doesn’t make me an asshole. In the real world, people don’t walk around and tell people, “Btw, trigger warning for those who’re afraid of bees. I’m about to talk about them so now would be a good time to cover your ears.”

Either you like what I’m talking about or you walk away. This is a public forum and no one is being forced to look at pictures of bees. I can’t believe how much this has blown up with you people. Next time you post a cat picture, please be respectful and tag a trigger warning for those who are afraid of kittens. Unfuckingbelievable. 

You can rationalize it however you want, but at the end of the day if someone says, “I won’t be able to engage with you unless you warn me about certain things” and you say, “Why should I bother to accomodate you” then you’re a fucking asshole and that’s it.

Anyways in the real world their are trigger warnings on a shit ton of things. For example: movie ratings and ingredients lists on food.

At the end of the day, if someone wants me to change my blog to adhere to whatever tiny little wittle trigger they might have, then I’d have no real content, now, would I? Let’s face it, the vast majority of the “triggers” are fucking full of shit on this site. As someone who was CLINICALLY diagnosed with PTSD from years of childhood abuse, it fucking astounds me how much people throw “trigger” and “ptsd” around and it fucking bothers the shit out of me. 

I have never once had to tell someone to warn me that they were going to say certain words and I’ve never had someone ask me to warn them. I don’t know; maybe because I’m grounded in REALITY and I don’t live on tumblr self diagnosing PTSD and a bunch of other mental ailments to make myself seem like a fragile, special little snowflake. If you self diagnose any of that, you’re doing nothing but invalidating those who ACTUALLY have it. 

So someone was scared of bees. I haven’t heard from them since. If their phobia was real, they probably moved on and you assholes stepped in like you’re going to internet war. 

And another thing, INGREDIENT LABELS AND MOVIE RATINGS ARE NOT TRIGGER WARNINGS THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU

Trigger warnings don’t remove content. They are literally just additional tags. 

First of all it’s not just people with PTSD who have triggers. Secondly, how are you even bringing up self-diagnosis? Like what? PTSD is a pretty common reaction to rape and rape is something that happens all the time soooooooo… And anyways there’s many valid reasons why someone not have access to a clinical diagnosis (ie. lack of funds to see someone clinically). Thirdly, you not having triggers doesn’t mean that other people’s triggers aren’t valid and you don’t get to say that. 

What exactly do you think a trigger warning is? It warns you of potentially dangerous things. The same way you might not want an eight year old to see a really gory movie because it could give them nightmares, someone who has a severe allergy to bees and remembers horrible hospital stays might not want to be reminded of that by seeing posts about bees.

It’s literally one additional tag. It’s not hard to add. It’s not a lot of work and it doesn’t mean that you can’t have the content you want.

Aug 22

Anonymous said: yeah thats great let people get triggered cause you cant take one second to tag something that isnt supposed to be on this blog anyway. fuck you.

ewkcupid:

katatttack:

ewkcupid:

The internet is so filled with stuff that can potentially trigger people. It is not my responsibility to cradle and coddle every single internet stranger on MY blog. Anything on my blog is supposed to be there because it’s MY blog. Again. Don’t tell me what I should and should not do on MY blog as if it were law. Don’t like it? Fuck off and unfollow me. 

lol I literally just followed you and this is the first notable thing that I see. That’s total bullshit. Sure you don’t have to tag for triggers, that just makes you a fucking asshole. Great job, douche bag.

No seriously. I don’t have to tag and that doesn’t make me an asshole. In the real world, people don’t walk around and tell people, “Btw, trigger warning for those who’re afraid of bees. I’m about to talk about them so now would be a good time to cover your ears.”

Either you like what I’m talking about or you walk away. This is a public forum and no one is being forced to look at pictures of bees. I can’t believe how much this has blown up with you people. Next time you post a cat picture, please be respectful and tag a trigger warning for those who are afraid of kittens. Unfuckingbelievable. 

You can rationalize it however you want, but at the end of the day if someone says, “I won’t be able to engage with you unless you warn me about certain things” and you say, “Why should I bother to accomodate you” then you’re a fucking asshole and that’s it.

Anyways in the real world their are trigger warnings on a shit ton of things. For example: movie ratings and ingredients lists on food.

Aug 22

Anonymous said: yeah thats great let people get triggered cause you cant take one second to tag something that isnt supposed to be on this blog anyway. fuck you.

ewkcupid:

The internet is so filled with stuff that can potentially trigger people. It is not my responsibility to cradle and coddle every single internet stranger on MY blog. Anything on my blog is supposed to be there because it’s MY blog. Again. Don’t tell me what I should and should not do on MY blog as if it were law. Don’t like it? Fuck off and unfollow me. 

lol I literally just followed you and this is the first notable thing that I see. That’s total bullshit. Sure you don’t have to tag for triggers, that just makes you a fucking asshole. Great job, douche bag.

Aug 22

postgenderfemmerobot:

Films for (and staring) Young Girls of Colour 

Wadjda | Bend it Like Beckham | Hula Girls
Whale Rider | Our Song | Rabbit Proof Fence
Lilkee | Pariah | Bumm Bumm Bole
Balak-Palak | Children of Heaven | How She Move
Quinceanera | Sherina’s Adventures | Before Your Eyes
Sister Act 2 | Real Women Have Curves | Nobody Knows
The Heart of the Game | Mad Hot Ballroom | Crooklyn
Anita & Me | Akeelah and the Bee | Girl in Progress

Aug 22

Anonymous said: what do u think about nicki skinny shaming in anaconda?

prayistrash:

I think skinny ppl can turn off her song and open literally any magazine, watch any other video or movie and tv show and see their body types idealized and praised

Aug 22

ice-wizard:

soullesshusk:

strangersatthemall:

negacrow:

nightmareloki:

newvagabond:

Omfg.

OH MY GOD

Well, that was unexpected.

whAT EVEN IS GOING ON>??

ok I’ve seen this like 8 times on my dash and ignored it but now I finally watched it because I was like “okay this has to be SOMETHING good because everyone I fucking follow is reblogging it”

I was not fucking let down at all.

What has this website done to me?