Aug 25

I don't care how many "likes" your photo has →

im-dont-went:

bigfatlies:

I’ll take my healthy sized (normal BMI of 22) body over your obese nasty body any day. Yes I said it, obesity is NASTY. Not only does it feel nasty (I’ve been there so I know), but it looks nasty. Who the fuck cares how many likes you have on your photo, especially when you are…

Woah there. You’re being just as much a bully as people who fat shame. “You disgusting thin trash” seriously? That’s beyond rude and gets you no where. Instead of having people focus on fat shamming you just piss people off and have them focus on you being rude and a bully. You’d think if fat shaming bothered you so much you wouldn’t wish that same feeling on someone who’s thin. I know this won’t change your mind any as you’re evidently all ready too far gone in your hate so I’ll stop my rant here but know you’re being just as hurtful and just as much a bully as someone who fat shames. I hope you come to realize how rude and unnecessary that was. No one deserves to be talked to that way. No one.

Why don’t you cry about it?

Aug 23

Anonymous said: yeah thats great let people get triggered cause you cant take one second to tag something that isnt supposed to be on this blog anyway. fuck you.

ewkcupid:

katatttack:

ewkcupid:

katatttack:

ewkcupid:

The internet is so filled with stuff that can potentially trigger people. It is not my responsibility to cradle and coddle every single internet stranger on MY blog. Anything on my blog is supposed to be there because it’s MY blog. Again. Don’t tell me what I should and should not do on MY blog as if it were law. Don’t like it? Fuck off and unfollow me. 

lol I literally just followed you and this is the first notable thing that I see. That’s total bullshit. Sure you don’t have to tag for triggers, that just makes you a fucking asshole. Great job, douche bag.

No seriously. I don’t have to tag and that doesn’t make me an asshole. In the real world, people don’t walk around and tell people, “Btw, trigger warning for those who’re afraid of bees. I’m about to talk about them so now would be a good time to cover your ears.”

Either you like what I’m talking about or you walk away. This is a public forum and no one is being forced to look at pictures of bees. I can’t believe how much this has blown up with you people. Next time you post a cat picture, please be respectful and tag a trigger warning for those who are afraid of kittens. Unfuckingbelievable. 

You can rationalize it however you want, but at the end of the day if someone says, “I won’t be able to engage with you unless you warn me about certain things” and you say, “Why should I bother to accomodate you” then you’re a fucking asshole and that’s it.

Anyways in the real world their are trigger warnings on a shit ton of things. For example: movie ratings and ingredients lists on food.

At the end of the day, if someone wants me to change my blog to adhere to whatever tiny little wittle trigger they might have, then I’d have no real content, now, would I? Let’s face it, the vast majority of the “triggers” are fucking full of shit on this site. As someone who was CLINICALLY diagnosed with PTSD from years of childhood abuse, it fucking astounds me how much people throw “trigger” and “ptsd” around and it fucking bothers the shit out of me. 

I have never once had to tell someone to warn me that they were going to say certain words and I’ve never had someone ask me to warn them. I don’t know; maybe because I’m grounded in REALITY and I don’t live on tumblr self diagnosing PTSD and a bunch of other mental ailments to make myself seem like a fragile, special little snowflake. If you self diagnose any of that, you’re doing nothing but invalidating those who ACTUALLY have it. 

So someone was scared of bees. I haven’t heard from them since. If their phobia was real, they probably moved on and you assholes stepped in like you’re going to internet war. 

And another thing, INGREDIENT LABELS AND MOVIE RATINGS ARE NOT TRIGGER WARNINGS THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU

Trigger warnings don’t remove content. They are literally just additional tags. 

First of all it’s not just people with PTSD who have triggers. Secondly, how are you even bringing up self-diagnosis? Like what? PTSD is a pretty common reaction to rape and rape is something that happens all the time soooooooo… And anyways there’s many valid reasons why someone not have access to a clinical diagnosis (ie. lack of funds to see someone clinically). Thirdly, you not having triggers doesn’t mean that other people’s triggers aren’t valid and you don’t get to say that. 

What exactly do you think a trigger warning is? It warns you of potentially dangerous things. The same way you might not want an eight year old to see a really gory movie because it could give them nightmares, someone who has a severe allergy to bees and remembers horrible hospital stays might not want to be reminded of that by seeing posts about bees.

It’s literally one additional tag. It’s not hard to add. It’s not a lot of work and it doesn’t mean that you can’t have the content you want.

Aug 22

Anonymous said: yeah thats great let people get triggered cause you cant take one second to tag something that isnt supposed to be on this blog anyway. fuck you.

ewkcupid:

katatttack:

ewkcupid:

The internet is so filled with stuff that can potentially trigger people. It is not my responsibility to cradle and coddle every single internet stranger on MY blog. Anything on my blog is supposed to be there because it’s MY blog. Again. Don’t tell me what I should and should not do on MY blog as if it were law. Don’t like it? Fuck off and unfollow me. 

lol I literally just followed you and this is the first notable thing that I see. That’s total bullshit. Sure you don’t have to tag for triggers, that just makes you a fucking asshole. Great job, douche bag.

No seriously. I don’t have to tag and that doesn’t make me an asshole. In the real world, people don’t walk around and tell people, “Btw, trigger warning for those who’re afraid of bees. I’m about to talk about them so now would be a good time to cover your ears.”

Either you like what I’m talking about or you walk away. This is a public forum and no one is being forced to look at pictures of bees. I can’t believe how much this has blown up with you people. Next time you post a cat picture, please be respectful and tag a trigger warning for those who are afraid of kittens. Unfuckingbelievable. 

You can rationalize it however you want, but at the end of the day if someone says, “I won’t be able to engage with you unless you warn me about certain things” and you say, “Why should I bother to accomodate you” then you’re a fucking asshole and that’s it.

Anyways in the real world their are trigger warnings on a shit ton of things. For example: movie ratings and ingredients lists on food.

Aug 22

Anonymous said: yeah thats great let people get triggered cause you cant take one second to tag something that isnt supposed to be on this blog anyway. fuck you.

ewkcupid:

The internet is so filled with stuff that can potentially trigger people. It is not my responsibility to cradle and coddle every single internet stranger on MY blog. Anything on my blog is supposed to be there because it’s MY blog. Again. Don’t tell me what I should and should not do on MY blog as if it were law. Don’t like it? Fuck off and unfollow me. 

lol I literally just followed you and this is the first notable thing that I see. That’s total bullshit. Sure you don’t have to tag for triggers, that just makes you a fucking asshole. Great job, douche bag.

Aug 22

postgenderfemmerobot:

Films for (and staring) Young Girls of Colour 

Wadjda | Bend it Like Beckham | Hula Girls
Whale Rider | Our Song | Rabbit Proof Fence
Lilkee | Pariah | Bumm Bumm Bole
Balak-Palak | Children of Heaven | How She Move
Quinceanera | Sherina’s Adventures | Before Your Eyes
Sister Act 2 | Real Women Have Curves | Nobody Knows
The Heart of the Game | Mad Hot Ballroom | Crooklyn
Anita & Me | Akeelah and the Bee | Girl in Progress

Aug 22

Anonymous said: what do u think about nicki skinny shaming in anaconda?

prayistrash:

I think skinny ppl can turn off her song and open literally any magazine, watch any other video or movie and tv show and see their body types idealized and praised

Aug 22

ice-wizard:

soullesshusk:

strangersatthemall:

negacrow:

nightmareloki:

newvagabond:

Omfg.

OH MY GOD

Well, that was unexpected.

whAT EVEN IS GOING ON>??

ok I’ve seen this like 8 times on my dash and ignored it but now I finally watched it because I was like “okay this has to be SOMETHING good because everyone I fucking follow is reblogging it”

I was not fucking let down at all.

What has this website done to me?

Aug 22
Aug 22

Anonymous said: i fucking hate canadians. you're a bunch of rude assholes.

Honestly, it’s refreshing to hear. Fuck Canada, our home ON Native land.

Aug 22

Anonymous said: You need to be slapped with a weiner.

Gross.

Aug 22

vespertine-doe said: I applaud you for still trying to get through wiltingwillowws. Speaking to her is exhausting and the amount of mental gymnastics that she is performing is enough to discourage anybody from participating any further discussion. Whether or not you get through to her, I hope you will give yourself the opportunity to unwind and relax and enjoy yourself. You and likepotatoesdo are angels for all that you've attempted. <3

Thanks, I really appreciate you saying so. :)

Aug 22

Anonymous said: LOL bitch please, you're not fooling anyone when you play the "I heart minorities" card. YOU know nothing of racism. You twist that girl's words to make you look like the better person. Bitch is a bitch is a bitch. It's not ~misogynistic~. You act like a horrible person so you should expect to be called out on it. Well, unless you'd rather be called a cunt :).

Cool, thanks for the politics update in which you proved nothing. Great job.

Aug 21

Anonymous said: It's not racism holy shit.

It definitely is.

Aug 21

Anonymous said: You're calling her racist for saying all our problems are equal. Wow. You're so smart 👏

This isn’t about who’s smarter or who’s more selfish. This is about calling racism out for what it is.

Aug 21

wiltingwillowws said: You're old news now. Everyone thinks you're wrong. How dare you say someone's struggles are minor compared to others. Leave me the fuck alone. Carry on with your life. I don't care what you have to say anymore.

sidiousnumbertwo:

katatttack:

sidiousnumbertwo:

wiltingwillowws:

katatttack:

wiltingwillowws:

katatttack:

wiltingwillowws:

katatttack:

wiltingwillowws:

katatttack:

Everyone? Are you sure? Because I’ve seen some asks that you’ve posts along with a few other blogs that still think you’re racist soooo…

You know a big part of privilege and oppression is silence. What you’re trying to do now is make me feel badly so that I stop calling you out because you don’t want to have to deal with the fact that you’re racist. Well fuck that. You are racist and I will call you out.

Are you a bully? Or just a bitch? Probably both.

Calling you out doesn’t make me a bully, but calling me a bitch in anger definitely makes you an misogynist.

Do you always twist peoples words to make yourself sound right?? You have no relevance in my life. Move it along babe.

I’m not twisting anything. I’m not going to stop calling you out just because you don’t like it. You’re being racist and you need to be accountable for your actions.

Its not that I don’t like it, its that you’re cometeky wrong and ignorant. You have no idea what you’re saying. How is it wrong that I think we shouldnt try to one up each other with our struggles because that’s selfish. What’s the problem here??

The problem is that you’re acting as though rape culture affects all people equally and that’s not true. It’s not true to say that white, Black, and Native wimmin experience rape culture on the same level. The only reason why you would say that is because you don’t want to feel like someone out there has had a harder life than you when you’re life has been so shitty. It’s a hard lesson to internalize, but the reality of the situation is that if you don’t respect that you’re being racist.

sidiousnumbertwo

Women*
Long posts, sketchy arguments, need to continue pretending like they will make any difference.
No. All of these do not make you intelligent.

This isn’t about intelligence and you don’t have a right to correct my spelling. At least I had an argument

A right? This is tumblr. Not Geneva.

Honestly, why do you bother saying stuff?